Why can't I stop dreaming about my husband's mistress? Lauri Loewenberg

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Since you would actually react this way if he found out this man was with someone else and having a child, it seems to be an emotional reflection. Next thing I know is I'm asking my current partner if it's ok if my ex comes to pick me up to take me to his parents house. I was emotionally abused by my mother as a child, and this lead me to accept at only 20 years old an abusive situation with my husband as normal.

It disrupts my sleep and also affects my mood during the day. In my dream I was meeting my old neighbour she is still living across the street of my ex boyfriend and my old house. Having a strong reaction to this statement and not being able to entertain the idea that your dream about your ex is telling you anything else besides that this person still loves you and you are destined to be together should show you how strong your hopes and wishes are.

Dreaming about my abusive ex

Why do I always dream my husband is cheating on me. It is one of the most frequently asked questions and is usually accompanied by a bit of anxiety on the behalf of the one asking. Having an affair is the ultimate betrayal and the cause of great fear amongst all sorts of couples. It is natural to have some measure of insecurity within a relationship and the idea that your partner might step out on you is this fear taken to its furthest manifestation. Your primary relationship may or may not be subject to an actual affair, but in the language of symbolism, this dream has little to do with infidelity and a lot to do with getting your needs met. Asking for what you need in a relationship is tough work. Wishing that you partner could read your mind is common — in fact many people expect that their partners can and should be able to know what to do in any given situation and may punish each other when this does not occur. A dream of cheating may be pointing to a moment in your primary relationship when you may not feel like why do i keep dreaming of my ex husband needs are being met. There is no intimacy need that cannot be met in a primary relationship. Going outside of a marriage or partnership for sex or affection is a way of meeting a primal need by a roundabout way. Simultaneously, there is an avoidance of some underlying problem that is not being addressed. Therefore this image represents both a circuitous route to connection and avoidance of confrontation. If you discover an infidelity in a dream, you may want to consider areas in your life where you are avoiding taking care of your self. If you are engaged in an affair, you might need to examine your life circumstances for signs of being manipulative or indirect in getting your needs met. As getting caught is always reflective of an unconscious desire to effect a change, being discovered as being unfaithful could indicate a desire to shift some area of your life. Always be willing to look at issues of responsibility when this dream image appears: where in your life are you not allowing yourself to be accountable for your actions. If the dream involves details of constructing an affair, you may want to examine how genuine you are being in terms of expressing and manifesting your desires in life, both relationally and otherwise. Where in your life are you being authentic. How might you be betraying your own needs. It is safe to assume that this image in a dream indicates a theme of intimacy issues in your waking life, no matter what the marital state of the dreamer. This may have literal implications if you are actually involved in an affair or believe your partner to be. And it is your dream, not your husbands, so it is all about you. Cheating is a round about way of getting intimacy needs met. So if you are dreaming about your husband cheating, you might want to take a look at the ways in which you may not be expressing what you desire in your life directly. This may be about issues in your marriage, but it could be in any area of your life, work, friendships, other relationships, where you are not asking for what you need directly. The men that are in question are indeed men that I have an uncomfort with or whom she has been with in the past. I keep in mind that I myself have cheated numerous amount of times in the past but have been true to myself on all fronts that a man can be tempted looking at other women, inappropriate images on computer exc. Almost every day I dream that my husband is cheating. I have never cheated on my husband. It has not crossed my mind of cheating on him. He confessed to visiting one and allowing the other one to sleep at his place. But he says he never slept with either of them. The first time it happened, I cried the next morning and he comforted me and assured me he would never cheat on me. I am having dreams most nights that I am going through my boyfriends phone and I find pictures of women in their underwear. I pack his bags and throw him out. Life without my husband was a real mess for me and my children. After discussing the resolution with Dr Amigo, he gave me hope that he will restore my marriage. I felt confident that he will actually make my husband to return home and he did. Its always different women, some i know and some i dont. When why do i keep dreaming of my ex husband catch him in my dream he just continues on with what they r doing. It doesnt matter if i am heart broken and crying or angry or confused they just continue with it. The answer for me, i think, is b3cause in real life my husband is selfish in bed. I am always coming onto him and making moves, but its never him advancing toward me. He doesnt touch me in places either. He doesnt do the things i know i like in bed, but the results r always the same. He has an orgasm and i never do. Ive done everything from shaving, cleansing, cute outfits, oils, i mean everything to change myself to make him want to do more or put more into my needs but he never does. I think my dreams come from low self esteem because of this and feeling unwanted sexually or not worth the time to please me.

I got the courage to divorce him in spite of the fact that I love him. I did some research on dream analysis. I was emotionally abused by my mother as a child, and this lead me to accept at only 20 years old an abusive situation with my husband as normal. I would not assume your dream reflects anything but your own thoughts and feelings. I often dream of my ex and then a few days later I will see him out somewhere. I feel like I have been robbed of my happiness, because I ran to safety. The dreams are you, from you, for you, your own inner being at work.